You donβt have to keep it all together here. You can just beβ¦ and begin to heal.
Hi, Iβm Constance Elaine β a Somatic Trauma Therapist and safe place for any woman quietly carrying too much. For the past 15 years, Iβve walked alongside women who seem like theyβre doing just fine β managing successful careers, raising families, serving in ministry β but underneath it all, feel overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally numb, or weighed down by the past.
Theyβre asking questions like:
βWhy am I always anxious, even when things are going well?β
βWhy do I feel so disconnected from myself and God?β
βWhy canβt I stop people-pleasing, even though itβs draining me?β
βWhy does therapy help in the moment but never really change me?β
I understand β because Iβve been there.
My work is built on one belief: Healing is not just possible β itβs holy.
With training in trauma, somatic work, brain-based interventions, and a heart grounded in faith, I help women regulate their nervous systems, release emotional pain, and reconnect with who they truly are beneath the overwhelm.
My approach blends:
Faith-based principles
Neuroscience-backed tools
Somatic (body-centered) practices like Brainspotting & HeartMath
Spirit-led compassion & emotional safety
I donβt believe in cookie-cutter therapy. I believe in healing thatβs rooted in truth, customized to you, and powerful enough to transform generations.
If youβre longing for deep, lasting healing β not just behavior change, but soul-level restoration β Iβd be honored to walk with you.
Letβs start this journey together.
As the story goes
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My Story: From Hidden Hurt to Healing
Not all traumas are parallelβ¦
For a long time, I didnβt think I had a right to struggle. My trauma didnβt look like the ones you read about in books or see portrayed on the big screen.
I wasnβt in an abusive relationship. I wasnβt a victim of war or sexual violence. My parents divorced β that was it. And yet, for me, that βsimpleβ event cracked the foundation of my world. As a highly sensitive child, the emotional ripple of that separation shaped my inner world in deep, unseen ways. But I didnβt know that at the time.
Instead, I told myself:
βThis isnβt trauma.β
βOther people have it worse.β
βJust get over it.β
I buried my pain and pressed on. What I didnβt realize was how deeply unacknowledged hurt can fester β how unresolved emotions can follow you into adulthood and silently shape your choices. Without the language for my sensitivity or the tools to process grief, I ended up chasing validation in all the wrong places. I partied. I numbed. I disconnected. I attached myself to people and places that only deepened the ache. I lost who I was.
I wasnβt just anxious β I was empty. I felt unseen in my marriage, worried constantly about my kids, and deep down, I believed something devastating:
I believed that even God had turned His face from me.
But grace met me in the rubble. Through honest prayer and a fierce commitment to rebuilding, I began to rise β slowly, intentionally, and with divine guidance. In that rising, I discovered f i v e steps that helped me reclaim peace, identity, and purpose. These steps didnβt just change my life β they saved it.
Now, I want to share them with you. Because no matter what your trauma looks likeβ¦
Whether it's loud or quiet, complex or unclearβ¦Your pain is valid. Your story matters. And your healing is possible.
So let me ask you:
Are you ready to arise? Letβs walk this journey together.
βAnd your ancient ruins shall be rebuilt; you shall raise up the foundations of many generations; you shall be called the repairer of the breach, the restorer of streets to dwell in.β -Isaiah 58:12
Are you ready to arise?
The wilderness awaits